Tems reveals her early struggles with global fame, recalling how she hid her identity and wanted music success without public attention
Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has revealed her early struggles with global fame, recalling how she once avoided public recognition and hoped to build a successful music career without sacrificing her private life.
Tems made the disclosure while speaking on The Boost Podcast, where she reflected on the period when her music career began attracting wider attention.
The Grammy-winning singer said fame initially made her uncomfortable, particularly when strangers began recognising her in public.
She recalled instances at airports when people identified her as Tems, only for her to deny that she was the singer.
“I would go to the airport and people say, ‘You’re Tems.’ I will be like, ‘No, I’m not Tems.’ I was so afraid,” she said.
Tems explained that she wanted to continue living what she described as her “secret life” while making music and building her career away from intense public scrutiny.
“I wanted to continue my secret life, and I was like, ‘God please, I don’t want to be in the spotlight,’” she added.
Her comments offer a glimpse into the more private side of an artist whose career has since taken her to some of the biggest stages in global music.
Tems left her job as a digital marketer in 2018 to pursue music professionally.
She released her debut single, Mr Rebel, the same year, beginning a journey that would eventually take her from Nigeria’s independent music scene to international recognition.
The singer has since become one of Nigeria’s most prominent contemporary music exports, collaborating with major international artists and earning global awards and nominations.
Her account also highlights the contrast between the quiet life she once wanted and the level of visibility that came with her success.
Despite her discomfort with fame in the early stages of her career, Tems has continued to establish herself as a distinctive voice in contemporary African music while maintaining considerable control over her personal life.
Her recollection provides a human perspective on the pressures that can accompany rapid success, particularly for artists who enter the global spotlight before becoming fully accustomed to its demands.