Deyemi Okanlawon Explains Why He Doesn’t Call Wife First During Emotional Struggles in Candid Interview

Deyemi Okanlawon has shared insights on emotional strength, masculinity, and why he relies on a wider support system during personal challenges

Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has opened up about emotional resilience, masculinity, and the importance of having multiple support systems during difficult moments in life.

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Speaking during a recent interview, Deyemi Okanlawon reflected on how men are often expected to carry emotional and physical burdens without immediately expressing vulnerability.

According to him, many men are conditioned to endure pressure and prioritise protection of those around them, even in moments of personal difficulty.

“My job is to protect the people around me. If gbegbe happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen; there’s no excuse,” he said.

The actor explained that this mindset influences how he responds to personal struggles, adding that he often relies on structured emotional support rather than immediate family response.

He disclosed that his first point of contact during difficult times is not his wife, but a therapist or mentor he trusts and keeps on speed dial.

“My wife is not the first person I call because she is also dealing with her own business and raising the family,” he explained.

Deyemi Okanlawon added that while he maintains that system of support, there are moments when situations become overwhelming, and he turns to his wife for emotional help.

“When it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me,” he said.

His remarks have sparked conversations online about masculinity, emotional expression, and the importance of mental health awareness among men, particularly in high-pressure environments.

While some viewers praised his honesty and structured approach to emotional wellbeing, others highlighted the need for men to feel safe seeking immediate emotional support from their partners.

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The discussion continues to generate engagement across social platforms, reflecting broader conversations around mental health, relationships, and societal expectations of men.