Banky W Reveals Honest Truth About Marriage Struggles

Banky W shares candid details about marriage with Adesua Etomi, cooking roles at home, and their emotional IVF journey to parenthood

Nigerian singer and actor Banky W has shared candid details about his marriage to actress Adesua Etomi, offering rare insight into their home life, parenting journey, and the challenges they faced before welcoming their son.

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Speaking on the Teju Babyface Show, Banky W revealed that he often takes charge of cooking at home, a role he said contrasts with common societal expectations about gender responsibilities in marriage.

He explained that their arrangement is based on personal understanding rather than traditional norms, noting that what works for one couple may not apply to another.

The singer said the dynamic in their home is built on balance, adding that while he enjoys cooking, his wife is more comfortable enjoying meals than preparing them.

Banky W also addressed public reactions from guests who sometimes feel surprised when they see him in the kitchen, stating that their relationship functions effectively because it is defined by mutual agreement.

He urged couples to avoid living under external pressure, stressing that relationships should be guided by what works internally rather than societal expectations.

Beyond domestic life, Banky W spoke emotionally about the couple’s struggle with infertility, describing Adesua Etomi’s resilience during multiple IVF attempts as deeply inspiring.

He recounted how she endured repeated medical procedures with strength and determination, a period he described as both challenging and transformative for their marriage.

The singer noted that their eventual success in welcoming their son, Hezekiah, marked a powerful moment of joy after years of uncertainty.

He said the experience reshaped his perspective on partnership, responsibility, and emotional support within marriage.

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Banky W concluded that their journey remains a testament to patience, faith, and perseverance.