Laide Bakare Clubbing Controversy: The actress defends introducing her 17-year-old daughter to clubbing and alcohol, drawing fierce criticism and some support.
Laide Bakare Clubbing Controversy has ignited fierce debate online after the Nollywood actress openly revealed that she introduced her 17-year-old daughter to clubbing and alcohol.
In a candid conversation with content creator Mr. Lilgaga, Bakare proudly stated that she took her daughter to a nightclub for the first time, saying she looked forward to being credited in her daughter’s future memoir as the person who introduced her to nightlife.
“I took my daughter to the club for the first time at 17,” Bakare said. “And I like the fact that in her memoir, she would reference me as the person who introduced her to alcohol and clubbing.”
The statement has triggered a storm of criticism and public backlash, with many Nigerians questioning the actress’s parenting judgment and moral example.
“Introducing a 17-year-old to alcohol and nightlife is reckless parenting, not cruise,” wrote social media user It_hafizski. “At that age, guidance and discipline should come first.”
Another user, Just_2undey, added: “Some of these people are not worth the pedestal the people place them on.”
Critics argue that her remarks normalise underage drinking and could send the wrong message to impressionable fans and parents. Several called the decision “irresponsible”, while others labelled it “self-indulgent parenting.”
However, the Laide Bakare Clubbing Controversy has also drawn a few voices of support, with some defending her approach as an unconventional but open way to raise a teenager in a modern world.
“Low-key this thing normal,” commented Sturbyrich. “At least her daughter will be free to talk to her about anything. If she no carry her go club, she’ll still go by herself and might even do worse things.”
Brainpink echoed similar sentiments: “That’s how she wants to train her girl. If you overprotect, sometimes she’ll still go to the club, drink and smoke — and you won’t notice.”
Still, child development experts argue that exposure to adult experiences at a formative age can have lasting psychological and behavioural effects, warning against normalising such behaviour under the guise of modern parenting.
Laide Bakare has not responded to the backlash at the time of reporting. The actress, who was recently honoured as a UN Ambassador for Peace, now faces calls to clarify her stance or issue a statement on the matter.
As the Laide Bakare Clubbing Controversy continues to trend, it reignites the debate on parenting standards in the public eye, the role of celebrities in shaping youth behaviour, and the blurred lines between openness and overexposure.